Sunday, December 12, 2010

我知道自己需要的是什么。。。

我需要的
不是一餐免费晚餐，
而是一位会在我坐下前
为我拉椅子的绅士。。。

我需要的
不是一辆名牌贵车，
而是一位会在我上车后
为我扣上安全带的司机。。。

Tuesday, December 7, 2010

懂，不懂

有些事情
不是我不懂
只是我装着不懂。。。

有些事情
不是我装不懂
只是我不想要懂。。。

有些事情

不是我不想懂

只是懂了，也没有用。。。

Monday, December 6, 2010

there r jz few more days left till the holiday...
even thru now is still not holiday yet,
even thru i m excited for the holiday,
but honestly i don like holidayS...

yeah~
holiday is fun n relaxing..
no stress,
no tension,
relax,
vacation,
bla bla blahh...

but for me,
holiday is jz a stop but not an end...
holiday is jz a warm up before a starting point...
moreover
there must be an important assignment for every holiday
which is PLAN A HOLIDAY PLAN...

okay
here's my plan >>
1st
A gotong-royong in desaria C-6-5..
2nd
A trip to Penang & Kedah wif my fellow "lollipop" gang!!
3rd
help my dad wif his website..
4th
find a job, my very first job ^^
5th
get a haircut, chg a hairstyle...
6th
set a new goal for my coming next Sem studies - "a brand new ME will be"

i m
gonna let go everything wif a REFRESH button
gonna look far to acheive my goal wif a FORWARD button
gonna get myself a strong anti-"bubblegum virus" wif an INSTALL button

wait n c
A BRAND NEW ME is coming soon ~
arghhh
i will miss my frenz during the holiday,
all the best to everyone.. ^^

Saturday, December 4, 2010

Soulmates ~

If you ask most people what the term soul mate means they would most likely reply that soul mates are two people who are destined to be together. This definition would suggest that there is only one person in the whole world that we are supposed to be joined to. Since it is a really big world this fact could depress some romantics out there since it would be unlikely that most of us would ever find this one specific person. Do you know that even soulmates can be differentiated in few types?

Companion Soulmates
These are people that we encounter through their life. These are usually friends, teachers, mentors, or other people who have helped you achieving a life's goal or helped you out of a crisis.

Twin Soulmates
These types of soulmate are your closest friends or a person whom you really click with. According to those who believe in reincarnation, you have already met them in a past life, and in this life you are continuing the relationship. There is an emotional bond between these soulmates and each is able to sense the feelings of each other..

Twin Flame Soulmates
This is the most popular type of soulmate. There is usually one twin flame soulmate for each of us. Twin flame soulmates have spent multiple lifetimes together in past lives. There is incredible chemistry and attraction towards each other. They "complete" each other and only few lucky people are able to find their twin flame soulmate. Twin flame soulmates, if separated, usually suffer enormous pain.

Love Economics Definition of Soulmates

Love Economics is our theory of love and dating. It is based on probabilities calculations, population statistics, and empirical research findings from Psychology, Sociology, Anthropology, and Psychiatry. Love Economics explains social interactions in economic terms, benefits and costs. Based on this theory, the person who gives you the highest benefit per cost ratio on this Earth is your soulmate. The benefit to cost ratio is called your soulmate ratio. Mathematically, the ratio is written as:

soulmate ratio = total love benefit / total love cost

Your soulmate is the person who will maximize your soulmate ratio and vice versa. If another person exists that has the ability to give you a higher soulmate ratio than the person you are with, then the person you are with is not your soulmate. No one in this world, including being by yourself, could make you happier than being in love with your soulmate.
"True love is the love you share with your soulmate."

Some people believe that a potential soulmate may be living halfway around the world. Based on the Love Economic Theory, the odds are against this happening due to cultural differences unless you just moved from there. Also, geographical distance will increase search, research, and maintenance costs. Unless one of you decides to take the risk to move to the other person's location, he/she is not your soulmate.

The longer you are in love with your soulmate, the higher the soulmate ratio becomes. Better communication skills will emerge and you both will share more experiences resulting in more similarities. It is only after you finished the research phase and had been in love for many years can you determine if the person you are with is indeed your soulmate.

As a human, we are condemned to spend our lives searching for the other half, our soulmates.